Black guys: Do you find shy/introverted black girls attractive?
Well, do you? Im a 19 year old black girl and live in a middle/working class majority black neighborhood in southern California. People in my neighborhood are mostly working families, or old retirees who spend their days on their patio, in bench swings. These are NOT ghetto/trashy people. However, that being said I cant seem to attract the attention of any of the young black guys my age in my neighborhood or at school. I mean dont get me wrong. Their not throwing bricks at me or anything, they are friendly. And some guys have even complimented me, by saying I have sweet and innocent eyes (because I dont smoke or drink and Im still a virgin), I was given a really nice nickname, everyone at school calls me Bambi. Its really cute, but I get the feeling its more in a "little sister" kind of way. And thats it. It seems like most of them are only attracted "romantically" towards a certain type of black girl. And the girls arent really "ghetto." Their nice too, but they are definately more extraverted, more into sports, more into going out to clubs, more into going to shows, they wear more expensive/trendy clothes, and more outgoing overall than I am. They have all the guys fawning over them, and I dont really know if I can compete 
I have an ISFJ personality type, quiet, alittle shy, I love gardening (especially sunflowers), cooking (cajun style!), learning Spanish, playing the cello, reading; my favorite books are Les Miserables, and The Shadow of The Wind. I volunteer as a candy striper at my local hospital, and Im studying to become an OB/GYN. I just dont know what to do anymore. I know Im not ugly, Ive recieved compliments about my looks from people, all my life. I dont think Im gods gift to mankind or anything, but I do know that Im attractive (I excercise regularly, cook all of my own meals, moisturize daily, natural hair). I just feel alittle left out because it seems like other girls are having so much fun with their boyfriends and going out. Black guys (I know not all of you think the same, but Im just curious to hear some opinions), would you consider me to be your your type? If not, then what is it Im doing wrong?
